End of chapter 2
depression / friends and family / gay / gay bear / HIV/AIDS / homophobia / medication / mental illness / politics / psychology / relationships / religion / sex / suicide / wellbeing

End of chapter 2


Well, that time of the year has come where I stop talking for a while (yes it does happen occasionally). This blog has now been running for two years, and the audience has more than tripled since this time last year.  Thank you all for continuing to read these ramblings and share them about the … Continue reading »

feminism / gay / homophobia / politics / relationships / sex

Who is the husband and who is the wife?


I can remember being asked by one patronising bitch who thought she was being funny, ‘who’s gonna wear the dress’ when she heard I was getting married.  This was over ten years ago, when civil unions were just a twinkle in a politician’s eye and gay union ceremonies were not commonplace at all. But for … Continue reading »

discrimination / feminism / gay / HIV/AIDS / homophobia / politics / religion

The cult of Coke and Catholicism


One of the most intriguing cultural shifts of the last few decades is that churches have become more like corporations, and corporations have become more like religions: complete with their own ideological brand values, whimsical narratives tinged with divinity and hubris, and the automatic assumption that their very existence is a good thing. My friend … Continue reading »